tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066121448555755963.post5780741438464957849..comments2023-11-05T07:45:46.880-05:00Comments on World According to Shia: Shia's Healthy New Lifestyle Day 9Mellissa "Shia" Rondinellihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04864921922986355253noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066121448555755963.post-53522259034731174582010-02-11T15:24:56.988-05:002010-02-11T15:24:56.988-05:00Hi Kelly,
I'm happy that you read my blog. We...Hi Kelly,<br /><br />I'm happy that you read my blog. Welcome to Shia's world. I don't think you understood what I was trying to say...I'm just trying to be more positive so when people are negative, I can make a choice to walk away or to lighten the mood. As for your comment about abusive relationships and how strong women can easily fall into them. I agree. My own mother, who I totally believe is one of the strongest women I know, was in a physically abusive relationship and how she handled it (which took time) and overcame it was an inspiration to myself about how a woman should be treated. So my first statement of saying I have never been and never will be in an unhealthy romantic relationship is due to the fact that I know what an abusive relationship is and what the signs and of course the actions look like.<br /><br />Can you be immune to other people's negativity? Of course not. But, I'm just saying I need to stop taking on other people's negativity and letting it become my own. I am of course speaking of general negativity like oh my commute to work is sooo long...I hate when people...blah blah blah. <br /><br />Thanks for the comment though I really appreciate you following me. You've taught me a lesson, so thank you. I need to be more specific with blogs. Not everyone will ultimately know me personally when they read my blog so throwing out blanket statements may not come across like I meant them too.<br /><br />Again, thanks for reading and feel free to post anytime.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066121448555755963.post-65289362119199793112010-02-11T15:04:14.851-05:002010-02-11T15:04:14.851-05:00good for you for promoting positive attitudes in y...good for you for promoting positive attitudes in your life! i definitely understand your need to draw a line with people, and it's your right to reserve your own happiness.<br /><br />that said, i just want to give my 2 cents about being in unhealthy relationships. don't fall into the trap of thinking that you could never be in one. ANYONE can be in one. perhaps you have a support system or an outlook that would make it easier for you to get out of one, but no one is immune to the unhealthy behavior of other people -- you can only control how you react to it. some of the most powerful, confident, and successful women i know have fallen victim to abusive and unhealthy relationships. just wanted to point that out!<br /><br />kellyKelly@TearingUpHouseshttp://tearinguphouses.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066121448555755963.post-46473978098123834492010-02-10T16:22:51.159-05:002010-02-10T16:22:51.159-05:00lol, I know I just wanted to be funny- it seriousl...lol, I know I just wanted to be funny- it seriously does feel better to not complain all the time...its like it breeds more complaining. you start looking for more to discuss etcTaylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07011975004069744888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066121448555755963.post-5292289009348807182010-02-10T16:16:58.436-05:002010-02-10T16:16:58.436-05:00Girl I by no means was talking about you...I'm...Girl I by no means was talking about you...I'm just talking about those who bitch just to bitch not someone with an actual problem. But then again...maybe...jkAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5066121448555755963.post-44785569923969874832010-02-10T16:12:24.957-05:002010-02-10T16:12:24.957-05:00and thank hey zeus you put your foot down- or I wo...and thank hey zeus you put your foot down- or I would never shut up! lol. complaining isn't healthyTaylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07011975004069744888noreply@blogger.com